5 Things We Discover When We Write Through the Tough Times

by Edie Melson @EdieMelson

Five things we discover when we write through the tough times.

I’ve never met anyone who had an easy life. I’ve met a lot
of people that looked like they did—from the outside. But once I’ve gotten to
know them, I quickly learned that things were never what they seemed. This
holds true for writers.

Those who have the luxury of writing full-time have the same
struggles faced by those who have limited time.
That leads me to what I think is one of the biggest lies
about writing—the myth of finding time to write. Truthfully, that time is never
found.
It’s carved out of our busy lives. It doesn’t matter if you’re a bestselling
author or just starting to put pen to paper. And whether or not we consistently
carve out that time, no matter what’s happening around us, will determine how
successful we are.
As writers, we need to realize tough times will come. And
it’s during those times that our commitment will be tested and our resolve will
be forged.

But take heart. There are some good things that will come
out of perseverance, and today I’m going to share them.
Discover a strength you didn’t know you had.
1. A strength you
didn’t know you had.
Until we push ourselves to write when we don’t feel
like it, write when we don’t have time, and write when we plain just don’t want
to, we’ll always feel like a fraud. But when we grit our teeth and hammer out
words—sometimes just junk—we take our dream from wishing to reality. After all,
as Nora Roberts said, “You can fix anything but a blank page.
2. The knowledge that
you are a person to be admired and respected.
If I give up every time
something gets difficult, I lose my self-respect. But, if I continue on, no
matter how difficult, I earn that respect back. Beyond that, I earn the respect
of other writers around me.
3. A foundation of
toughness.
Writing isn’t for wimps. A successful writer is two parts
mind-over-matter, three parts perseverance, and one part optimism.
Discover the courage to continue on.

4. The courage to
continue on no matter what comes in the future.
I’ve discovered something
even more frightening than writer’s block. It’s starting over after a
successful project. We all look at that blank screen and wonder if we have
another book/article/poem inside us. And the more successful we are, the more paralyzing
the fear can become, if we let it have a foothold. If, on the other hand, we
refuse to listen to those doubts echoing in our minds, we’ll find that our
courage grows and we’re able to continue moving forward, no matter what.

5. A sense of
accomplishment.
Moving forward, when things get tough, gives us a sense of
accomplishment. Small successes can be built, one after another, into a
confidence that doesn’t collapse when things get hard.
All of these things will stand us in good stead, in life as
well as in our writing endeavors. So next time you find yourself in the midst
of tough times, persevere and come out on the other side stronger.
These are the things I’ve found when I write through the
tough times. What insights have you gained? Be sure to share your thoughts in
the comments section below.

Edie Melson is the author of numerous books, as well as a freelance writer and editor. Her blog, The Write Conversation, reaches thousands each month. She’s the co-director of the Blue Ridge Mountains ChristianWriters Conference and the Social Media Mentor at My Book Therapy. She’s also the Military Family Blogger at Guideposts. Com, Social Media Director for SouthernWriters Magazine and the Senior Editor for NovelRocket.com. Connect with her on Twitter and Facebook. Don’t miss her new book from Worthy Inspired, WHILE MY SOLDIER SERVES.