The Paradoxical Commandments for Writers

You’re probably familiar with the Paradoxical Commandments, often attributed to Mother Teresa. (See below*.)

As I pondered what to talk about in today’s Novel Rocket post, my wife suggested I think of Paradoxical Commandments that would apply to writers.

So while realizing I won’t come close to the brilliance of the original, I submit for your perusal a few commands I need to keep in mind on this journey called publishing.

  • Editors, agents, and other writers can sometimes be unreasonable, irrational, and self-centered. Forgive them anyway. 
  • If you tell others about your stories because you can’t keep your belief in them inside, people will call you self-absorbed and self-serving. Keep telling the world about your stories anyway. 
  • Your closest friends and own family might say your desire to write is a dream of fools. Keep dreaming anyway.
  • If you share your writing secrets and mind-bending plot ideas with other writers, some people will steal them. Share them anyway. 
  • The story you spend years creating, others will mock with scathing reviews, and tactless critiques. Create your story anyway.
  • If you find sales success and are given awards for your writing, some may be jealous.  Celebrate your success anyway.
  • The networking connection you make, or pivotal career advice you give, to an aspiring writer might be forgotten and unappreciated by them. Make the connection and give the advice anyway. 
  • Pouring every ounce within you into that manuscript might not be enough to get you a contract and you’ll be left broken and discouraged. Keep giving everything to your manuscripts anyway. 
  • In the final analysis, your writing career is between you and God.  So write for Him and let all else rest slip away. He is more than capable of handling the anyways. 
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* The verses below reportedly were written on the wall of Mother Teresa’s home for children in Calcutta, India, and are widely attributed to her. 
Some sources say the words were written on the wall in Mother Teresa’s own room.  In any case, their association with Mother Teresa and the Missionaries of Charity has made them popular worldwide. There is evidence they are based on a composition originally by Kent Keith, but much of the second half has been re-written in a more spiritual way. 
  • People are often unreasonable, irrational, and self-centered.  Forgive them anyway.
  • If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives.  Be kind anyway.
  • If you are successful, you will win some unfaithful friends and some genuine enemies.  Succeed anyway.
  • If you are honest and sincere people may deceive you.  Be honest and sincere anyway.
  • What you spend years creating, others could destroy overnight.  Create anyway.
  • If you find serenity and happiness, some may be jealous.  Be happy anyway.
  • The good you do today, will often be forgotten.  Do good anyway.
  • Give the best you have, and it will never be enough.  Give your best anyway.
  • In the final analysis, it is between you and God.  It was never between you and them anyway.